Today is day 34 so potentially over 1/3 done my challenge. I say potentially because Mistress has the final say if it does end after 100 days. I’m finally starting to feel horny but not really a frustrated horny. My mind is all over the place wanting stuff but since I know I can’t have an orgasm that’s not what I want. I want kink, all kinds of kink! My mind jumps from wanting stuff like bondage and nipple clamps to be humiliated. I think in general I just want a reminder that I’m submissive and Mistress is in charge.
Back in the days of our points system Mistress would take away points as a punishment, that worked good at first until I collected a massive amount of points. I could have multiple infractions and still have enough points to get anything off our menu I wanted. After that we needed to bring in a new form of punishment.
The common theme pointed to spanking as punishment so why not try that path. We had played around with spanking prior to this but play is the key word there. It had always been more sensual than anything. Along with that we would sometimes use chastity and denial as punishment but if that’s what I wanted at the time it wasn’t a real punishment.
At first things worked out great, if I screwed up Mistress would get me to drop my pants right there and than and she would correct my actions. Sometimes she would even just casually walk away to get a weapon of her choice and return telling me to bend over. This was all fine as long as we were alone and at home but what about if we were out and about or had company over. Mistress did take mental notes and sometimes actual written notes of my infractions but sometimes my actions never got corrected. Eventually punish just faded away as our adventure would go into hibernation.
Just prior to the arrival of our newborn I proposed an idea to Mistress that not only would correct my actions but also get our adventure back on track. My idea was to spank me once a week every week if I needed it or not, it was more less intended to be a weekly review of my actions. I think we started out with 5 spanks just for maintenance and than 1 for each infraction. We tried that for a few weeks but decided to up it 5 spanks a cheek for maintenance and 2 spanks per cheek for each infraction.
My maintenance spanks come first and Mistress makes me count them out, they are about medium strength and gradually increase in sting factor. Than my infraction spanking come and they are slightly above medium strength. I’m also made to count those out and say why I am receiving them. Mistress usually makes me drop my pants and bend over the foot of the bed than ask me if I think I’ve been a good boy this week. So far all the spanks have been delivered by a crop but Mistress does like to keep a wooden spoon on hand if I deserve it.
We have been practicing this for probably close to half a year now and I would say it’s really helped get things back on track. It is our Sunday activity and we have only had to reschedule it later in the week 2 or 3 times now. Since I’ve started the 100 day challenge I’ve only had 3 infractions that needed to be corrected, I’m not sure if they will come back into play later so I’m trying to keep track of them.
This post took me a few days to complete so it is now Sunday day 38 and I will only be receiving my maintenance spankings this week since I’ve been an extra good boy this week.
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