I was working on the road lots in those days so when I got days off they wouldn’t always be on Mistresses days off. She soon started to lock me up during the day while she was at work. She has made a point several times to make sure I knew it wasn’t a trust issue, she just likes having that extra assurance knowing I can’t touch or play with myself while she wasn’t around. I was usually unlocked in the evening once she got home from work and allowed to stay that way until the next morning. There was a few times in the beginning that I was a little stubborn to get out of bed to be locked up and one morning I just didn’t get out of bed before she left for work. That night she got home and went straight to the bedroom to get the cage. She made it clear that I was getting locked up for the night because I didn’t get out of bed that morning and I would still have to get up with her the next morning to make her coffee. Due to those rude 4 a.m wake up calls the cage likes to give me there was no problem getting out of bed the next morning. She enjoyed the time we got to spend that morning and thinks coffee tastes better when I make it for her so it became a rule that I had to get out of bed with her in the morning. Along with that a bed time was set because I would usually stay up later than her on my days off and that is most likely why I was so stubborn to get out of bed some mornings.
It now seemed that I was spending most of my days off in the cage. Some nights I would be let out and allowed to stay free for the night if it was shower night or if Mistress wanted to play. Some nights I would get locked back up after my shower or play time. She had no consistency and that’s the way she likes it. To this day Mistress still loves the element of surprise and always keeps me guessing. The one thing that wasn’t a surprise at that time was when she unlocked me for play time I always knew it would end in an orgasm for me. Denial was brought up since anything we researched about chastity usually had something to do with denial to go along with it. But Mistress didn’t show too much interest in denial at that point, she had always enjoyed giving me pleasure and was made to believe that giving blue balls was rude.
I was the one to actually suggest we give denial a try. I was still doing a lot of researching in those days to find answers for the problems one usually has when first getting into chastity, stuff like finding the right fit, how to avoid discomfort, ways to help stay clean. I had read a lot of information and most of it seemed to have chastity and orgasm denial go hand in hand. Some people claim that chastity is pointless with out denial, that you need denial to properly train a submissive and other stuff like you have to keep them locked and denied for this certain amount of time. I had read so much information and some of it contradicts the other, I was overwhelmed by all this and didn’t know what to believe.
To me chastity is everyone’s own opinion. There is no right or wrong way to practice it, you don’t have to be wearing or even own a device to be chaste. In my own opinion it is all a mind set and the main reason I have and wear a device now is more of a symbol and a reminder than an actual tool to keep me chaste. But that’s just my opinion and everyone else is entitled to their own.
Any ways back to the story. I was overwhelmed with information and didn’t know what to believe so I took little bits of information from everything I had read and we made up our own system to make chastity and denial work for us and to build more on our female led relationship. We didn’t dive right into our system, we still had a few fine details to work out and most importantly we had to teach Mistress to say no.
We started off slow and took baby steps. On a weekend we would play in the morning, Mistress would get her pleasure and I would get attention too but no release. Later on that day or evening we would play again and we would both get pleasure. We would play again the next day and Mistress would tell me no again but this time make me wait a day before I got my release. We eventually worked our way up to me going a full week without an orgasm but playing almost every day , sometimes several times a day. Mistress was and is a very sexual female and has no problem having multiple orgasms so playing a few times a day was the normal for us on the weekends. Mistress had learned that saying no was ok and blue balls really wasn’t as mean as what she was made to believe. I had got a taste of sexual frustration and also learned that blue balls really weren’t that bad. Now it was time to work out the last few details of our system.
To me chastity is everyone’s own opinion. There is no right or wrong way to practice it, you don’t have to be wearing or even own a device to be chaste. In my own opinion it is all a mind set and the main reason I have and wear a device now is more of a symbol and a reminder than an actual tool to keep me chaste. But that’s just my opinion and everyone else is entitled to their own.
Any ways back to the story. I was overwhelmed with information and didn’t know what to believe so I took little bits of information from everything I had read and we made up our own system to make chastity and denial work for us and to build more on our female led relationship. We didn’t dive right into our system, we still had a few fine details to work out and most importantly we had to teach Mistress to say no.
We started off slow and took baby steps. On a weekend we would play in the morning, Mistress would get her pleasure and I would get attention too but no release. Later on that day or evening we would play again and we would both get pleasure. We would play again the next day and Mistress would tell me no again but this time make me wait a day before I got my release. We eventually worked our way up to me going a full week without an orgasm but playing almost every day , sometimes several times a day. Mistress was and is a very sexual female and has no problem having multiple orgasms so playing a few times a day was the normal for us on the weekends. Mistress had learned that saying no was ok and blue balls really wasn’t as mean as what she was made to believe. I had got a taste of sexual frustration and also learned that blue balls really weren’t that bad. Now it was time to work out the last few details of our system.
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